Gisèle Pelicot: Shame Must Change Sides
In this landmark 100th episode of When Killers Get Caught, we step beyond the moment of arrest and into something deeper: a reckoning.
The case of Gisèle Pelicot shocked the world. For nearly a decade, her husband, Dominique Pelicot, drugged her into unconsciousness and invited dozens of men into their home meticulously documenting the abuse along the way. What began as a seemingly minor incident in a French supermarket unraveled into one of the most disturbing cases of systemic betrayal in recent history.
But this story is not about him.
It is about Gisèle, who refused to remain anonymous and who made one thing clear: Shame must change sides.
In this milestone episode, we examine:
The Pelicot Timeline: From the first red flags to the historic trial in Avignon.
The Digital Blueprint: How forensic evidence exposed a hidden, global network of “everyday” perpetrators.
The Lived Aftermath: Firsthand insights into the experiences of survivors like Zoe Watts, Amanda Stanhope, and Valentina.
The "Pelicot Effect": How this case is fundamentally reshaping the legal definition of consent.
This episode is dedicated to the survivors, to those who have had to reclaim their bodies, their autonomy, and their stories from the shadows.
Content Warning: This episode contains detailed discussions of sexual assault and drug-facilitated abuse. Listener discretion is strongly advised.
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100 episodes When I started this
journey, the goal was simple, to
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understand how justice is served
when the unthinkable happens and
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together over the.
Last five years.
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We followed the evidence.
And studied the psychology.
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We've traced the path all the
way.
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To the moment the handcuffs
click shut.
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And then we've sat in the
aftermath looking at how these
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crimes fracture not just
individuals, but entire
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communities.
So the first thing I want to say
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is thank you for being here with
me through the evolution of this
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show, through old Co hosts,
different styles and my own
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growth every single day today on
this milestone episode of When
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Killers.
Get caught the story.
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Isn't just about a.
Capture.
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It's about reckoning.
It began with a mundane moment
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in a supermarket, Amazon France,
a man caught taking photos he
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never should have been taking.
At first it looked like an
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isolated crime.
But when the police opened his
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hard drives, they didn't just
find a predator.
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They found a blueprint.
They found a system.
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A decade of betrayal.
Meticulously documented and
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organized.
Giselle Pellicott was his wife.
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She was a mother, a grandmother,
a professional and for 10 years
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her husband, Dominique
Pellicott, drugged her into
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unconsciousness and invited
dozens of strangers into their
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home.
To assault her, he.
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Filmed it.
Catalogued it and archived it.
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He believed he was the director
of a private horror show.
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But Dominique made a fatal
mistake.
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He underestimated his wife when
the truth finally broke the
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world.
Expected Giselle to disappear.
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They expected her like.
So many survivors to choose
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anonymity we will all would have
understood.
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Being the face of such a
monumental horror comes with a
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scrutiny that few can withstand.
Instead, Giselle stood up.
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She walked into that courtroom,
looked her attacker in the face
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and declared shame must change
sides.
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Today we follow Giselle's
courage.
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From the courtrooms of Avignon
to the chilling reality that
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this was never just about one
man.
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This is a.
Pattern a network of everyday
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men hiding in plain sight.
Sexual violence is a unique kind
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of harm.
It is deeply personal, uniquely
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devastating, and life altering
in ways that don't simply fade.
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It changes how you move through
the world.
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How you see yourself.
How you learn to exist in your
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own body.
Again, I'll be honest.
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This episode was hard.
For me to write, and it's a hard
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one to tell, but the value in
this story is greater than my
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own comfort.
This episode is for the
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survivors.
It is not.
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For the perpetrators.
It is not for.
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Their excuses.
Or the narratives that try to
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make sense of what is senseless.
This is for Giselle.
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For Zoe.
For Amanda.
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For Valentina.
It is for every.
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Person known and unknown, who
has had to reclaim their body,
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their autonomy and their story
from the shadows.
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For those who understand this
kind of pain and the
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unimaginable strength.
It takes to keep.
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Going after it changes.
Your life forever you're.
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Listening to When Killers Get
Caught and I'm Brittany Ransom
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and today the shame changes
sides.
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Before we begin, a brief but
important note.
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Today's episode does discuss
sexual assault drug.
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Facilitated abuse and systemic
violence.
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These are heavy topics.
And I want you to.
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Take care of yourself.
While listening.
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If you need to skip this one, I
understand and I'll.
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See you at episode. 101.
We go back to where this story
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actually.
Begins.
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It didn't start in a courtroom,
and it wasn't a headline.
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It was an ordinary Tuesday and
September of 2020 inside of a
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supermarket, Amazon France.
Picture this.
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The mundane sounds of shopping
carts clicking, people debating
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what to have for dinner, the hum
of fluorescent lights.
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Among the shoppers is an older
man.
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He isn't carrying a basket.
He isn't looking at the shelves.
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He's lingering, loitering in the
aisles, moving too close to
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women watching.
Store security is the. 1st to
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notice that something is wrong.
He's holding his phone at an
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angle that doesn't make sense,
low and deliberate, with the
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camera pointed upward.
He's taking pictures of women
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under their skirts.
In the legal world, this is
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often treated as a contained
offence, what the French might
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call a delit, a medium level
crime.
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It's the kind of thing people
often minimize, assuming it ends
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with a shameful arrest, maybe a
fine, a stern warning, at worst,
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a few years in prison.
But when the police arrive and
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take Dominique Pellicott into
custody, the dominoes begin to
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fall.
His phone is confiscated.
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A warrant is issued for every
electronic device in his home
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from the precinct Dominique
makes a phone call to.
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His wife, Giselle, he confesses,
but he filters the truth.
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He tells her he has.
Disgusting urges, he admits to
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the supermarket photos and
Giselle in a testament to. 50
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years of trust she thought they
shared says she's shocked for
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sure, but she's a dedicated
spouse.
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She tells him she'll help him,
she'll find him a doctor.
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They'll get through this
together, but.
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What Dominique didn't tell her.
Was the police were.
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Already at their front door, and
as Giselle was promising her
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support, forensic investigators
were opening up.
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Hard drives they expected.
To find more photos.
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Instead, what they found was
much worse.
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They uncovered a digital file
system so organized it was
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almost clinical.
There were folders, subfolders.
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Labels, dates, detailed notes.
This wasn't just a.
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Collection.
It was a methodical,
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professional archive, over
20,000 videos and photos spread
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across multiple hard drives,
computers and.
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USB sticks seized.
From the Pellicott home.
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Every device they pulled.
From a dash.
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Drawer or a.
Closet was another piece of this
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digital mausoleum.
A library of a decade's worth
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of.
Trauma meticulously preserved
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and curated by the man who
claimed to love her.
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As the investigators move deeper
into the data, the air in the
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room must have changed.
The scale began to shift what
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looked like a momentary.
Urge revealed itself to be a
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decade.
Of controlled chilling.
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Repeated depravity.
They weren't just looking at a
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man who took pictures in a
grocery store.
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They were looking at a man who
had turned his marriage into a
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hunting ground.
And then the investigators
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reached the most harrowing
realization of it all.
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They realized that the woman in
the videos, the woman being
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assaulted by dozens of
strangers, the woman who was
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sleeping through a nightmare,
was the same woman waiting at
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home, believing her husband was
just a man who had made a single
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strange mistake.
The police now had one job left
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to do.
They had to go.
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Tell this woman in the home with
the blue.
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Shutters tell the devoted.
Wife.
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That she was the.
Victim in the majority.
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Of these videos, they had to
tell.
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Her that for 10 years, the man
she loved had orchestrated one
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of the most heinous crimes
France had seen in.
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Decades.
Giselle's peaceful life was
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over.
And the investigation?
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Was just beginning.
Giselle Pellicott was.
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Never meant to be a headline
before, she was a symbol of.
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Courage or a case?
File in a courtroom.
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She was simply a woman living
what?
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She called a perfect.
French Life.
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By day, her.
Existence was peaceful, defined
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by the quiet rhythms of a woman
who had earned her rest.
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She was born in 1952 in
Villingen, West Germany, the
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daughter of a French soldier.
But the stability of her early
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years was.
Short lived, her mother died of
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cancer when Giselle was only 9
and like so many other children
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of loss, she navigated A
fractured home life and strained
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relationship with a stepmother.
A struggle that fueled her deep,
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quiet desire to build a.
Happy, independent world of her
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own as soon as she was able.
Giselle Chase that happiness she
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built a formidable.
Career rising to the ranks of a
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French utility company to become
a high level.
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Executive.
And at 19, she met Dominique.
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They were just kids when they
fell in love, marrying in 1973.
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And for nearly 50.
Years, they were the bedrock of
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each other's lives.
They raised three children.
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David, Caroline and Florian, and
eventually.
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Traded the bustle of the Paris
suburbs.
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For the sun drenched piece of
Amazon in southern France, their
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home.
With its bright blue.
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Shutters and backyard.
Pool.
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Became the sanctuary where 7
grandchildren came to play.
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It was idyllic.
And built on 1/2 century of
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trust.
At least that's what she
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thought.
The shift began in 2011.
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It was subtle at.
First, strange, inexplicable
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red.
Flags that Giselle would.
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Later recount in her memoir A
Hymn to Life, there was the
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drink Dominique handed her that
had a.
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Particular.
Green Sheen when she questioned
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it.
He wordlessly.
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Poured it down the sink.
There was a time she found a
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bleach like stain on her clothes
and jokingly asked him.
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Did you drug me and Dominique?
Reacted with performative
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horror.
A master class in gaslighting
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that silenced her intuition, but
the missing time just grew
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entire.
Stretches of her life.
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Begin to vanish.
She would wake up.
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Disoriented, unable to account
for hours or full nights, like
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anyone losing their grip on
their own timeline, she turned
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to science for answers.
She went to a neurologist.
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She went to her gynecologist,
Describing these blackouts in
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the terrifying fog with no
answer insight a dark.
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Fear took root.
Giselle believed that she was.
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Dying, she feared early onset
Alzheimer's was stealing her
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mind.
A quiet grief settled over her
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as she prepared for a future
that was.
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Slipping away.
And then came November of 2020,
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when the police.
Called her to the.
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Station.
There was no gentle transition,
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they told her.
They had been investigating
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Dominique since the market and
on his hard drives they had
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found a folder simply labeled
abuse.
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They laid out a reality that
defied.
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Human comprehension for nearly.
A decade, she.
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Had never been ill.
She had been chemically rendered
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unconscious.
Her home, her sanctuary, had
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been turned into a stage for
dozens of strangers invited in
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by the man she.
Loved her husband.
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And nearly 100 other men had
raped her hundreds of times.
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While she lay oblivious.
The memory gaps weren't a
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diagnosis.
They were the.
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Physical evidence of crimes she
was never meant to remember.
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At first, Giselle's mind did the
only thing it could to survive.
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It rejected the truth.
She insisted these must be.
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Photoshopped She.
Said it was a frame job.
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But as the investigator showed
her, the.
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Still images and the evidence of
the evil things done to her
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body, her brain.
Disassociated she was.
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Looking at a woman who looks
like.
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Her who?
Had been treated.
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Like a rag doll without a soul.
She went home and sat in the
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silence of that shattered.
Life for six.
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Hours, then finally she.
Spoke the word out loud to her.
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Friend rape in that moment 50.
Years of history were.
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Rewritten.
It wasn't just a portrayal.
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It was the total collapse of her
reality.
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Everything she thought she knew
about her marriage, her safety
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and even her own body had been a
lie maintained by the person she
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trusted the most.
The peaceful existence by day
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was gone forever.
Now Giselle.
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Pellicott had to decide who.
She was going to be in the light
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of this terrible new morning.
There is a point in every.
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Case like this where the story.
Could simply go quiet.
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It could have stayed behind
closed doors, protected,
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anonymous and clinical.
It could have been reduced.
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To a pile.
Of legal documents and redacted
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reports allowing the public to
understand the crime without
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ever having to look the person
in the eye.
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That's the path.
Most survivors are offered, and
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for many, for very good reason.
It is the path they take.
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But Giselle Pellicott is not
most survivors, after learning
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the full staggering scale, have
what had been done to.
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Her Giselle was given.
The choice to remain a ghost in
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her own story.
She could have.
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Let her identity be.
Protected by the state, she
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could have let the.
Case proceed in a closed
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courtroom while she disappeared
into a.
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Well deserved private piece, but
she refused.
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Instead, Giselle made a decision
that would not only.
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Reshape the trial but.
Force a global reckoning.
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She choose to waive.
Her rights to anonymity and she
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chose a.
Public trial.
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She chose to attach her name,
face, and her voice.
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To every piece of.
Nauseating evidence in every
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hour of testimony.
And she didn't do it because.
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It was easy.
She did it because.
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She understood a fundamental.
Truth about the dark.
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Anonymity doesn't just protect
the victim, it sanitizes the
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crime.
And she knew if she stayed in
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the shadows.
The world would.
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Abstract her experience, they
could make a.
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Distance.
It would just be a sad story
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that was.
Easy to dismiss and even.
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Easier to forget by.
Stepping into the public eye,
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she made that impossible.
The crime could no longer be
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separated from the human being
it was committed against.
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The legal system could no longer
talk around her experience.
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They had to look at her.
Her.
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Presence in that courtroom in
Avignon became a piece of living
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evidence, not in a legal sense,
but in a human one.
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She made the.
Scale of the betrayal.
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Impossible to sanitize the
horrors, impossible to ignore.
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And at the heart of that
decision was a single sentence.
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4 words that would travel.
Far beyond the borders of
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France, shame must change.
Sides with those words, she.
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Reframed the entire universe.
Of sexual violence, she declared
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that the.
Burden of silence was no longer.
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Hers to carry the weight of the.
Stigma was no longer something
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that belonged to her identity.
She was handing that.
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Weight back to the.
System that allowed it and the
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men who.
Perpetuated it.
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It was a.
Declaration that shame belongs
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only to the guilty, not the
survivors.
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And once that line was.
Spoken the story.
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Could no longer be contained.
This wasn't just about what
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happened in one house in Mazon.
It was about.
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What happens to all?
Of us.
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When the truth gets finally
dragged into the light.
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When people first.
Heard about this case.
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The instinct was to treat it as
an outlier, an extreme story
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about.
One horrible man, one home and
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an unimaginable breach of trust.
But the more.
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Investigators looked outward.
The more that explanation.
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Started to fall apart.
What made this possible?
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Wasn't just what happened inside
the house in France.
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It was what existed outside of
it.
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Across encrypted platforms like
Telegram, investigators begin to
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trace networks.
Of users.
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Exchanging explicit instructions
on how to drug control and
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violate unconscious partners.
These weren't vague fantasies.
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They were structured, detailed
playbooks.
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They described dosages.
Timing methods to avoid
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detection.
And they weren't just talking
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about abuse.
They were.
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Teaching it This was an
ecosystem of reinforcement, a
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place where one person's.
Idea could be validated.
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By another, refined by a third,
and normalized through
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repetition until it stops
sounding like something
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unthinkable and just sounded
like something procedural.
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Once you understand that Mazon
stops looking like an anomaly
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and it's and it starts to look
like a point of contact between
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a private crime and a much
larger distributed system, the
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ability for Dominique to do as
much.
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As he did.
Hinges on where this all was
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coordinated.
Coco was one of those spaces.
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On the surface, it looks like an
ordinary anonymous chat site.
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No special access or encryption.
Needed just an open Door and
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Dominique Pellicott use that
platform to connect with men
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willing to participate in what
the courts called systemic abuse
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in France alone between 2021 and
2020. 4 authorities recorded
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over. 23,000 criminal complaints
linked to Coco, including hate
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crimes and networks involving at
least 480 identified victims
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while the site's founder.
Isaac Steidl was arrested.
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In 2025, his arrest didn't
dismantle the behavior, it
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simply displaced it.
Cut off 1 head of the hydra and
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two more take.
Its place.
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Then there's a site called
Motherless.
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Researchers have described this.
As an online rape Academy,
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reports show the site hosted
more than 20,000 user uploaded
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videos of non consensual
content, reaching an estimated
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62 million visits in a single
month.
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This isn't just passive hosting,
it's a global infrastructure of
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demand.
It's a place where the
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unthinkable is packaged as
content, where a violent crime
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is consumed as if it were just
another category of pornography
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on platforms like.
These the reality.
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Of the victim is erased and the
assault is rebranded as
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entertainment and then in 2026
CNN released an investigation
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called as Equals and it reframed
this entire landscape it
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connected.
Digital traces across borders
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to.
Show that the mechanisms used in
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Mazon weren't a French anomaly.
They are part of a wider global.
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Ecosystem.
And when you strip away the
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platforms, the data points in
the clinical legal language,
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you're left with something more
fragile.
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You're left with three names
sitting inside the lived
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aftermath.
Zoe.
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Watts.
Amanda, Stanhope and Valentina.
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We'll talk about the
infrastructure.
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Or the 20,000 videos but numbers
like those.
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Start to feel abstract.
They're too big to wrap your
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head around.
But for the women trapped inside
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of that nightmare, the horror
isn't a statistic.
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It's a cup of tea on a night
stand, a bedroom door.
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You thought was locked.
A person you love the most in
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the world, standing over you
while you sleep to understand
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the bravery.
It took.
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For these women to speak out, I
want you to understand the
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depth.
Of the betrayal.
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They didn't just.
Lose their safety.
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They lost their entire sense of
reality.
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For Zoe Watts, the.
Weapon wasn't a threat of any
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sort of physical violence, it
was a nightly.
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Cup of tea prepared.
By the man she had loved since
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she was 17 years old.
For years her.
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Husband was taking her their
son's sleeping medication and
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stirring it into her drink.
He wasn't just drugging her,
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though.
He was using her own trust to
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steal her consciousness.
Zoe's pain is compounded by a
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specific kind of societal gas
lighting.
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When Zoe finally spoke out, she
faced the crushing weight of
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people telling her.
But he's your.
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Husband as if marriage was a
license for ownership.
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She speaks up now because she
has to reclaim the instinct.
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We are.
All taught to ignore that
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sometimes the most dangerous
places in a dark alleyway.
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It's your own bedroom for Amanda
Stanhope.
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The story is.
Defined by the sheer duration of
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the deception, five years.
Imagine living at half a.
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Decade where your reality is a
lie.
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For five years, Amanda lived in
a fog, experiencing unexplained
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gaps in her memory and a fatigue
that was so intense she couldn't
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explain it.
She wasn't just losing a night.
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She lost years of her.
Life.
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When Amanda came forward, she
wasn't just discussing the
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crime, she was trying to
reconstruct her own history.
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By choosing to be a voice in the
CNN investigation, she was
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refusing to let those five years
belong.
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To the predators who?
Watched her online, she is
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pulling her life.
Out of the digital.
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Archive and back into the
daylight.
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And then there was Valentina.
We don't know her real name.
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She wished to remain anonymous
in the CNN article, but she
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experienced the most modern,
unsettling layer of this crime.
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The digital afterlife.
Unlike the survivors, who only
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have memory gaps, Valentina was
forced to confront the external
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evidence.
She saw the videos.
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She saw her own body treated as
content on screen being
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consumed.
By this global.
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Audience of everyday men.
Who viewed her?
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Violation as nothing more.
Than a category of.
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Porn.
For Valentina, speaking out was
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an act of narrative war.
She knows her image is out there
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in the dark corners of the
Internet.
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And it will.
Always be out there.
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But by speaking, she's saying
that woman on the screen is me,
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but she is a human being and she
is not your entertainment.
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What connects Zoe, Amanda and
Valentina to?
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Giselle Pellicott is a shared,
terrified bravery.
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They all could have stayed
quiet.
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They all could have.
Just lived in the protection of
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anonymity.
But they understood that silence
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is what allows the Rape Academy
to stay open.
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And they chose to be seen and
heard because they knew that
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shame only thrives in the dark.
They didn't just survive.
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They stood up.
And made sure that from now on.
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The world has to look at the.
Faces of the women the system
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tried to erase.
If you think about this, none of
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these stories are about
resolution.
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It's about the continuity.
After.
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Your life has been disrupted.
Zoe, Amanda and Valentino all
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chose his ability not because.
It was easy.
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But because the alternative is
worse.
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Their.
Stories interrupt the system by
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making it impossible to ignore,
because the evidence shows that
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this is not one site, not one
country, and not one type of
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man.
By the time the Pellicott case
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reached the court in. 2024.
The scale of what?
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Happened in Mazan can no longer
be contained by language like
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incident or scandal.
It was a national reckoning.
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The trial in Avignon was unlike
anything the French legal system
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had ever.
Processed over 4.
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Grueling months, the courtroom
became a space where repetition
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was the most damning evidence.
50 men stood trial alongside
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Dominique Pellicott and one
unsettled the public.
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Wasn't just the number of men,
but the normalcy.
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Of their faces.
These were the am ordinaire, the
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ordinary men, journalists, IT
workers, tradesmen you'd pass in
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the supermarket, college
students.
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They didn't fit the visual
markers of danger.
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We're all.
Told to expect.
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They were men hiding their
normalcy, forcing a terrifying
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question How many systems of
harm depend on not being
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separate from society, but on
being invisible within it?
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But the rupture didn't just.
Stop at the courtroom doors,
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investigators.
Uncovered that the violation
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reached even deeper into the
Pellicott family than anyone
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was.
Prepared for those seized.
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Devices revealed images and
recordings of Dominique's own
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daughters in laws and other
women in his family circle for
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his children.
The portrayal was total.
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Trust in memory had to be
reinterpreted under the weight
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of a private life that had been
quietly contaminated for.
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Years yet through that collapse,
Giselle's.
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00:23:03,520 --> 00:23:06,200
Sons David and Florian.
They stood by her side.
452
00:23:06,560 --> 00:23:09,120
Not because they understood what
she was going through, but
453
00:23:09,120 --> 00:23:13,360
because she was their mother.
And on December 19th, 2020. 4
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The verdicts arrived.
Monique Pellicott received the
455
00:23:16,640 --> 00:23:22,080
maximum sentence for aggravated
rape 20 years at 71 years.
456
00:23:22,080 --> 00:23:23,440
Old.
It is effectively a life
457
00:23:23,440 --> 00:23:25,960
sentence.
The other fifty men received
458
00:23:25,960 --> 00:23:29,080
varying punishments, some
stretching into the mid teens,
459
00:23:29,080 --> 00:23:33,000
some as low as just three years.
But for the public?
460
00:23:33,320 --> 00:23:36,600
The numbers did not.
Add up to justice outside of
461
00:23:36,600 --> 00:23:38,760
that.
Courthouse The atmosphere was
462
00:23:38,760 --> 00:23:41,320
not one of relief.
It was anger.
463
00:23:41,640 --> 00:23:44,640
Protesters.
Held up signs and screamed shame
464
00:23:44,640 --> 00:23:47,080
on justice.
The feeling across France was
465
00:23:47,080 --> 00:23:47,880
that while.
The law had.
466
00:23:47,880 --> 00:23:51,400
Spoken these sentences were
shamefully insufficient for a
467
00:23:51,400 --> 00:23:55,520
decade of coordinated depravity.
Some of these men received
468
00:23:55,520 --> 00:23:59,320
suspended sentences or terms way
shorter than prosecutors
469
00:23:59,320 --> 00:24:02,160
requested.
Leading activists to argue that
470
00:24:02,160 --> 00:24:03,720
the system still lacks the
proper.
471
00:24:03,720 --> 00:24:07,240
Tools to handle the true.
Gravity of sexual violence.
472
00:24:07,720 --> 00:24:11,160
The trial proved that harm like
this exists inside recognizable
473
00:24:11,160 --> 00:24:15,200
society, but the sentences left
many feeling that the punishment
474
00:24:15,480 --> 00:24:17,680
had not caught up to.
The severity of the crime.
475
00:24:19,240 --> 00:24:23,240
And in the long shadow of the
Avignon trial, something unusual
476
00:24:23,240 --> 00:24:27,680
began to happen.
It wasn't loud and it wasn't
477
00:24:27,680 --> 00:24:29,880
immediate.
But steadily across legal
478
00:24:29,880 --> 00:24:31,520
circles.
Parliamentary committees and.
479
00:24:31,520 --> 00:24:33,160
Policy discussions throughout
Europe.
480
00:24:33,520 --> 00:24:35,120
The case started shifting
something.
481
00:24:35,720 --> 00:24:38,560
This stopped being about the
prosecution of 51 individuals
482
00:24:38,560 --> 00:24:40,680
and started being studied as a
historic turning point.
483
00:24:41,400 --> 00:24:43,960
What emerged is what they now.
Call the Pellicott effect.
484
00:24:44,560 --> 00:24:48,040
It is shorthand for the way one
woman's refusal to hide began to
485
00:24:48,040 --> 00:24:50,680
dismantle the gap that has
existed in the legal system for
486
00:24:50,680 --> 00:24:54,640
centuries, the chasm between the
absence of resistance and the
487
00:24:54,640 --> 00:24:58,560
presence of consent.
For far too long, the law looked
488
00:24:58,560 --> 00:25:00,800
for a no.
It looked for a struggle.
489
00:25:01,040 --> 00:25:03,560
It looked for.
Physical evidence of refusal.
490
00:25:03,920 --> 00:25:06,080
But the Pelletcott case?
Forced lawmakers to look at the
491
00:25:06,080 --> 00:25:10,280
terrifying reality of silence.
Force them to admit that when
492
00:25:10,280 --> 00:25:14,120
silence is manufactured, induced
by drugs, or exploited by
493
00:25:14,120 --> 00:25:17,560
betrayal, it cannot be treated
as neutral.
494
00:25:18,320 --> 00:25:20,440
And across Europe, this.
Conversation has moved from the
495
00:25:20,440 --> 00:25:22,720
streets into the halls of.
Power we're.
496
00:25:22,720 --> 00:25:25,560
Seeing an acceleration towards
consent based frameworks.
497
00:25:25,960 --> 00:25:28,720
The phrase you'll hear.
Again and again, the one being
498
00:25:28,720 --> 00:25:30,480
shouted in protests and written
into new.
499
00:25:30,480 --> 00:25:35,080
State statutes is.
Blunt in its clarity, only yes
500
00:25:35,480 --> 00:25:37,920
means yes.
It's more than a slogan.
501
00:25:38,440 --> 00:25:41,120
It's becoming a legal
requirement, the demand that
502
00:25:41,120 --> 00:25:44,440
sexual violence be defined by
the absence of clear affirmative
503
00:25:44,440 --> 00:25:47,040
agreement, while laws don't
change overnight.
504
00:25:47,360 --> 00:25:49,960
The Pellicott effect.
Has made the direction of travel
505
00:25:49,960 --> 00:25:52,200
irreversible.
Governments are now being
506
00:25:52,200 --> 00:25:53,280
forced.
To review their old.
507
00:25:53,280 --> 00:25:56,160
Statutes and ask.
Does this law actually protect
508
00:25:56,160 --> 00:25:58,400
people, or does it protect the
predators?
509
00:25:58,400 --> 00:26:01,520
Who hide in the silence.
And beneath the complicated
510
00:26:01,520 --> 00:26:04,960
legal language, something more
fundamental is happening.
511
00:26:05,600 --> 00:26:09,000
We are witnessing a shift in
what society considers legible
512
00:26:09,000 --> 00:26:11,440
harm.
We are finally learning that
513
00:26:11,440 --> 00:26:14,960
consent is not the absence of
no, but the presence of a yes.
514
00:26:15,760 --> 00:26:18,080
And it's important to remember.
Where this shift started?
515
00:26:18,760 --> 00:26:21,040
Not with a politician or a
lobbyist.
516
00:26:21,640 --> 00:26:26,080
It was a courtroom in Avignon
with one woman choosing to be
517
00:26:26,080 --> 00:26:28,320
seen.
And from that decision?
518
00:26:28,480 --> 00:26:30,720
The pressure spread outward.
Into.
519
00:26:30,720 --> 00:26:33,800
Our laws, our policies.
And our very language.
520
00:26:34,560 --> 00:26:37,280
Sometimes institutional change
doesn't begin with a memo or
521
00:26:37,280 --> 00:26:42,120
reform.
It begins with exposure and the
522
00:26:42,120 --> 00:26:45,400
simple revolutionary refusal to
look away.
523
00:26:48,080 --> 00:26:50,760
After everything we've
discussed, the investigation,
524
00:26:50,960 --> 00:26:53,760
the sentencing, the trial,
there's still a question that
525
00:26:53,760 --> 00:26:55,320
lingers.
Outside of reach for the court,
526
00:26:56,160 --> 00:27:00,120
what does justice actually do
for the people who have lived?
527
00:27:00,120 --> 00:27:04,120
Through something like this,
there's a common misconception
528
00:27:04,120 --> 00:27:06,120
that truth, once revealed,
brings closure.
529
00:27:06,760 --> 00:27:09,040
We like to think that once the.
Facts are established the.
530
00:27:09,040 --> 00:27:12,480
System has done its job, and the
story can finally be tucked
531
00:27:12,480 --> 00:27:15,400
away.
But that's not how lived
532
00:27:15,400 --> 00:27:19,040
experience works.
Justice can acknowledge harm, it
533
00:27:19,040 --> 00:27:22,280
can assign responsibility, it
can create consequences that
534
00:27:22,280 --> 00:27:24,440
matter.
But it cannot erase what
535
00:27:24,440 --> 00:27:27,920
happened, it cannot rewind time,
and it cannot restore the
536
00:27:27,920 --> 00:27:31,200
version of life that.
Existed before the world broke.
537
00:27:32,080 --> 00:27:35,800
What it can do is return
something that was stolen long
538
00:27:35,800 --> 00:27:41,440
before the courtroom doors.
Ever opened voice for survivors
539
00:27:41,440 --> 00:27:43,880
like Giselle?
Speaking out isn't about telling
540
00:27:43,880 --> 00:27:46,960
a story that has ended.
It's about reclaiming authorship
541
00:27:46,960 --> 00:27:50,880
over a narrative taken from her,
one of the quietest consequences
542
00:27:50,880 --> 00:27:52,960
of this kind of violence.
Is that it steals your.
543
00:27:52,960 --> 00:27:56,000
Ability to describe your own
life, you become a person who is
544
00:27:56,000 --> 00:28:00,680
now spoken about.
But by testifying, by refusing
545
00:28:00,680 --> 00:28:03,760
to be silent, Giselle and the
woman of the as equals
546
00:28:03,760 --> 00:28:08,880
investigation turned memory from
something imposed into something
547
00:28:09,240 --> 00:28:12,240
reclaimed.
Justice, in the sense, is not a
548
00:28:12,240 --> 00:28:16,200
clean ending.
It's a rebalancing, quiet,
549
00:28:16,400 --> 00:28:20,480
imperfect and hard one.
The moment the story stops
550
00:28:20,480 --> 00:28:24,520
belonging to the perpetrator and
starts belonging once again to
551
00:28:24,520 --> 00:28:29,680
the person it was done to.
And stories like this don't end
552
00:28:29,680 --> 00:28:31,960
when the episode does.
They don't end when the
553
00:28:31,960 --> 00:28:34,960
headlines move on to something
easier to compartmentalize.
554
00:28:36,400 --> 00:28:40,120
For survivors.
The impact continues long.
555
00:28:40,480 --> 00:28:42,200
After the world stops.
Paying attention.
556
00:28:43,240 --> 00:28:44,720
And that is?
Where responsibility?
557
00:28:44,720 --> 00:28:48,080
Shifts away from the.
Courtroom and toward the rest.
558
00:28:48,080 --> 00:28:50,720
Of us, if you.
Feel as passionately about.
559
00:28:50,720 --> 00:28:52,720
This as I do, there are
practical ways.
560
00:28:52,720 --> 00:28:55,520
To move that energy into the
world, organizations like
561
00:28:55,520 --> 00:28:58,280
Amnesty and Irrational, along
with your local Rape Crisis
562
00:28:58,280 --> 00:29:01,400
centers and survivor support
networks, are often the only
563
00:29:01,400 --> 00:29:04,240
thing standing between a
survivor and total isolation.
564
00:29:04,640 --> 00:29:06,440
They rely on our.
Visibility.
565
00:29:06,440 --> 00:29:09,040
Our funding and our refusal to
treat these crimes as historical
566
00:29:09,040 --> 00:29:11,760
events.
The support isn't just
567
00:29:11,760 --> 00:29:13,800
financial, though, it's also
linguistic.
568
00:29:14,320 --> 00:29:16,200
One of the most powerful things
you can do.
569
00:29:16,480 --> 00:29:20,880
Is help the break the.
Cycle of self blame for so many
570
00:29:20,880 --> 00:29:23,560
survivors.
The final reflex is to turn
571
00:29:23,560 --> 00:29:26,600
inward and say I should have
known.
572
00:29:27,400 --> 00:29:29,160
I should have.
Seen this coming?
573
00:29:30,320 --> 00:29:32,120
We need to help change those
sentences.
574
00:29:32,440 --> 00:29:34,880
The shift is simple, but it
changes everything.
575
00:29:35,200 --> 00:29:36,840
He shouldn't have done that to
you.
576
00:29:37,680 --> 00:29:40,520
And that one sentence restores
accountability to the rightful
577
00:29:40,520 --> 00:29:44,080
owner, removing the burden of
predicting a predator's behavior
578
00:29:44,280 --> 00:29:46,720
from the shoulders of the person
who survived it.
579
00:29:48,840 --> 00:29:50,920
Finally, we have to remember
that belief is not.
580
00:29:50,920 --> 00:29:53,720
Passive, it's the first.
Form of intervention.
581
00:29:54,280 --> 00:29:57,160
Before the law.
Before the sentencing, before
582
00:29:57,160 --> 00:30:01,680
the systems respond, there's a
moment where someone hints at
583
00:30:01,680 --> 00:30:04,480
what they've experienced.
What happens next depends
584
00:30:04,480 --> 00:30:09,720
entirely on whether they.
Are believed belief is what?
585
00:30:09,720 --> 00:30:12,400
Determines whether a pattern
gets recognized or simply
586
00:30:12,400 --> 00:30:14,480
ignored.
It's what determines.
587
00:30:14,480 --> 00:30:21,760
Whether a survivor steps.
Forward or never tries in cases
588
00:30:21,760 --> 00:30:23,360
like this where silence allows
harm to.
589
00:30:23,360 --> 00:30:26,880
Persist for a decade.
Belief is more than support, its
590
00:30:26,880 --> 00:30:28,800
prevention.
So my call.
591
00:30:28,800 --> 00:30:31,600
To you today is this.
Respond differently when someone
592
00:30:31,600 --> 00:30:32,720
tries to tell you the.
Truth.
593
00:30:33,160 --> 00:30:35,280
Listen without requiring perfect
language.
594
00:30:35,680 --> 00:30:37,480
Resist the urge to.
Minimize what doesn't
595
00:30:37,480 --> 00:30:40,320
immediately make sense.
Justice doesn't begin in a
596
00:30:40,320 --> 00:30:43,640
courtroom and having none.
It begins in our living rooms,
597
00:30:43,880 --> 00:30:46,240
in our workplaces, and in our
friendships.
598
00:30:46,640 --> 00:30:49,960
It begins in the moments.
Where we choose to believe each
599
00:30:49,960 --> 00:30:54,440
other, we started this.
Episode in the supermarket in
600
00:30:54,440 --> 00:30:58,160
Mazon, France.
Small moment, an older man
601
00:30:58,160 --> 00:31:01,320
getting caught doing something
that on surface looks contained.
602
00:31:01,320 --> 00:31:04,320
Almost forgettable kind of
incident where if you only saw
603
00:31:04,320 --> 00:31:05,840
the surface you would assume the
story.
604
00:31:05,840 --> 00:31:08,200
Just send it there.
But nothing.
605
00:31:08,200 --> 00:31:11,800
About this case stay contained
or began as a single act did not
606
00:31:11,800 --> 00:31:15,480
remain one.
It unspooled into a pattern that
607
00:31:15,480 --> 00:31:18,880
a system then something far
greater than the quiet town
608
00:31:18,880 --> 00:31:21,800
where it appeared.
And now, at the end of this
609
00:31:21,800 --> 00:31:26,640
journey, we can say clearly it
was not just one man, it was not
610
00:31:26,640 --> 00:31:29,720
just one website, it was not
just one country.
611
00:31:30,720 --> 00:31:33,080
What happened here was never
isolated in the way.
612
00:31:33,400 --> 00:31:35,640
We like to believe.
Harm can be isolated.
613
00:31:36,240 --> 00:31:39,000
It was connected and replicated
and it's.
614
00:31:39,000 --> 00:31:41,680
Sustained.
It thrived.
615
00:31:41,680 --> 00:31:45,600
Inside structures that allowed
it to continue long after it
616
00:31:45,600 --> 00:31:49,920
should have been stopped.
And that is the uncomfortable
617
00:31:49,920 --> 00:31:52,800
truth at the center of
everything we've spored through
618
00:31:52,800 --> 00:31:55,000
the trial, through the As equals
investigation.
619
00:31:55,280 --> 00:31:57,880
Through every layer we've.
Pulled into the light, this is a
620
00:31:57,880 --> 00:32:02,120
system that was built on silence
and silence in the home, silence
621
00:32:02,120 --> 00:32:05,200
in the spaces where it was
coordinated, silence in the gaps
622
00:32:05,200 --> 00:32:09,480
where it went unrecognized.
And what we are seeing now
623
00:32:09,480 --> 00:32:10,600
through the courts and the
voices of.
624
00:32:10,600 --> 00:32:13,040
Survivors, it's what happens.
When that silence.
625
00:32:13,040 --> 00:32:15,360
Breaks doesn't disappear
quietly.
626
00:32:18,240 --> 00:32:20,520
But there is something else that
comes with that breaking point.
627
00:32:21,680 --> 00:32:24,400
The truth, always.
Leaves a trail, even when it's
628
00:32:24,400 --> 00:32:27,040
buried, even when it's
fragmented, even when it takes.
629
00:32:27,040 --> 00:32:31,600
Decades to surface.
It does not vanish and
630
00:32:31,600 --> 00:32:34,800
accumulates and eventually it
will find its way out.
631
00:32:35,640 --> 00:32:37,000
That's what this story has been
in its.
632
00:32:37,000 --> 00:32:38,240
Core.
A trail of.
633
00:32:38,240 --> 00:32:40,880
Truth being followed backward
through time, through systems,
634
00:32:41,160 --> 00:32:44,200
and silence itself.
As we close out.
635
00:32:44,200 --> 00:32:47,360
This hundredth episode, I want
to say thank you everyone who
636
00:32:47,360 --> 00:32:49,760
has been listening from the
beginning, and to those of you
637
00:32:49,760 --> 00:32:51,160
who joined somewhere along the
way.
638
00:32:51,760 --> 00:32:53,880
This journey has always been
about following the evidence
639
00:32:53,880 --> 00:32:56,120
wherever it leads, even when it
leads into.
640
00:32:56,120 --> 00:32:57,680
Places that are difficult to sit
with.
641
00:32:58,840 --> 00:32:59,960
For 100.
Episodes.
642
00:32:59,960 --> 00:33:02,280
We've asked.
The same question what happens
643
00:33:02,280 --> 00:33:05,240
when the unthinkable occurs?
And how does justice?
644
00:33:05,240 --> 00:33:10,000
Respond I'm not done asking
because the truth doesn't stop
645
00:33:10,000 --> 00:33:10,880
revealing itself.
Just.
646
00:33:10,880 --> 00:33:14,720
Because a case is closed, or a
verdict was delivered or story
647
00:33:14,720 --> 00:33:16,000
reached.
Its final chapter.
648
00:33:16,600 --> 00:33:19,360
The truth.
Keeps moving and I intend to
649
00:33:19,360 --> 00:33:21,040
keep following it.
With you.
650
00:33:22,000 --> 00:33:24,480
When cures get caught will
probably change over time, as
651
00:33:24,480 --> 00:33:27,280
all things do, but my commitment
to this work and to these
652
00:33:27,280 --> 00:33:29,240
stories into the.
Pursuit of reality.
653
00:33:29,480 --> 00:33:33,480
Beneath them will never stop.
Because the truth always leaves
654
00:33:33,480 --> 00:33:35,640
a trail.
And I will keep searching for
655
00:33:35,640 --> 00:33:38,920
it.
Thank you for 100 episodes and
656
00:33:38,920 --> 00:33:40,720
thank you for always listening.